I want to write an article that is based on how people make decision in relationships. The title would be, "How to handle relationship problems, like natural disasters pick how to destroy a city". I of course was considering which natural disaster I was. I didn't have enough information to determine that yet, so than I wrote on further through the descriptions of volcano's, earthquakes, and hurricanes.
Volcano's don't erupted everyday, but only when tectonic plates are pulled together or apart causing large opening in the earth that spur molten lava, ash , and gases. So, this person can be effectively useful in ending relationships at any stage of the relationship. Reason being is they don't consider a whole lot of emotional content valuable enough to overlook what they consider good logistics. Not telling someone your tired of being with them, just because it will hurt their feelings is not good logistics. At the same time volcano's create land mass such as mountains in relationships we call this blocks or space. Basically creating "mountains" in a relationship doesn't bring you closer together it allows the other
person to know where they stand or what they may have to accepted being with you. The volcano representatives feels by getting this understanding out early there should be no surprise, but are quickly willing to end (or erupted) the relationship when there understanding has no weight ( or consequence) on the other party decision. They seem emotional cold and not very responsive to others feelings. As this may be true, they also have less headaches, or worries unlike some of the other natural disaster. They don't beat around the bush or use phrases like "I want to see where it going"or "I can change them", they have the most effective way of handling bad relationship content, "DIRECTLY".
Earthquakes on the hand are sudden release of energy in the earths crust. Earthquakes can have swarms where there is no main shock, but a sequence of shocks. Earthquakes have aftershock where the main shock has past and a magnitude of energy creates a another wave of the shakes and sometimes be more powerful than the main shock. Earthquakes can also create storms which are a redistribution of power that can cause more intense earthquakes than the
one that created the storm, yet this take more time than an aftershock. Well, I now know where I belong, earthquakes. Sure we put on a good show, but than we have to go right back and do it again, because we left to many issues up in the air. Also, we leave reminders (or scars) in relationships because we allow time to become a bigger factor in the regret of not stopping the relationship early. Not the fact the other person is totally useless in more than one way, yet we overlook and can't even get five minutes away on the first problem, before we're overlooking the second or third problem.
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